Positive Quote For Today

"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty."— Maya Angelou


Doing What We Were Born to Do

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A few weeks ago while sitting on a sofa in the back verandah of our mansion, reading and meditating, I saw two birds flying high in the sky. They were gliding gracefully in the air without seeming to care about anything - the kind of living Jesus taught us to live. And as I watched the birds gliding in the air gracefully, I thought to myself, "Now, these birds are doing what they were born to do."

That got me thinking about us also doing what we were born to do. Every truly successful person I know achieved their success because they discovered what they were born to do and poured their hearts into it.

Colin Powell, for instance, was an average performer in high school. His genius was awakened when he discovered he loved soldiering after he joined the United States military in the late 1950s. His love for soldering led to his promotion through the ranks of the American military to become the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, the most senior position in the military. When Colin Powell was retiring from the American military in 1994, his greatest regret was that he couldn't start all over again.

Then there is Bill Clinton who discovered at an early age that he loved campaigning and governing. It is that love for politics that propelled him to run for the United States presidency in 1992. He won the elections, becoming the third youngest ever elected U.S. President. And during his presidency, he presided over an unprecedented era of peace and prosperity in America.

Another example of a man who discovered what he was born to do and did it passionately is Jack Canfield, a motivational speaker and co-author of the best-selling "Chicken Soup for the Soul" books. Jack Canfield said that he feels most successful when he is inspiring and empowering people to love and accept themselves more deeply, to open their hearts to others more fully, to trust and believe in themselves more completely, and to pursue their dreams more boldly and passionately.

As for me, I have been on a journey of discovering what I was born to do. And that journey hasn't been easy. Back in May 2007 when I was matriculating at the university in JKUAT to pursue a degree in electronic & computer engineering, I must have thought I could succeed as an engineer. But alas! I had a hard time understanding the intricacies of electronics engineering, such as how electrons are manipulated in a circuit to perform the magic we see in electronics gadgets. On discovering I wasn't wired for engineering, I dropped out of JKUAT in 2009.

After I dropped out of JKUAT, I came to profoundly admire Bill Clinton, Barack Obama, Ronald Reagan and John F. Kennedy - all who served as American presidents. I would listen to their speeches again and again on a computer and visualize myself talking eloquently like them and radiating a similar charisma.

My admiration for those American presidents led me to believe that I could also succeed as a politician. But you know what? When I registered to run for a political seat in the 2013 Kenya's general elections, I found myself lacking the drive to get out of bed in the morning to go campaign and talk to people.

I especially remember the day in 2013 when the coordinator of elections in my county - a lovely lady called Mrs. Rosaline Kasale - convened a meeting of all political candidates in my county. On the morning of that day, I struggled to get out of bed and made it to the meeting after much emotional effort. It was like I just wasn't wired for a political career either.

With time, I have come to discover that writing and composing songs are what I was born to do. I always feel elated whenever I write a great story or produce a tuneful hymn and someone out there likes it. And the high I experience after penning a great story or producing a tuneful hymn makes waking up in the morning easy for me. I intend to continue honing those talents with the faith that they will open the doors of success for me.

My dear reader, I urge you to likewise find out what you were born to do if you haven't discovered that already. And after finding out what you were born to do, pour your heart into it. Remember, as the great author Leo Buscaglia quipped, your talent is God's gift to you and what you do with it is your gift back to God. Adieu!

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A Beautiful Soul

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This is my friend Wilson Chira, one of the most beautiful souls I have ever encountered. More about him in the story below.

If there is anything I have learnt about life so far, it is that even when it's hard, sometimes it is okay to move on with life and leave certain people behind, people I have outgrown or who no longer serve a purpose for me. I no longer have the energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions and unnecessary conversations.

There are however those old friends I can never let go, friends who have been very kind to me and helped me at my hour of need, either with money or with encouraging words. One such friend is Wilson Chira (see photo above) who has never said anything negative to me in all the years we have known each other, even when I have acted crazily.

Chira and I met in 2002 in high school at Starehe Boys' Centre where we were classmates. We both participated in the Kenya Music Festival during which we played piano duets together and emerged among the best. It is interesting to note that in 2003, I was awarded a prize for being the best music student in junior high school while in 2005, he was awarded a prize for being the best music student in senior high school.

Overall though, Chira was brighter than me in the first three years of our high school career since he ranked ahead of me in the end-of-term academic results. But when we got into fourth form in 2005, I trounced him in "index" exams and after that, he never managed to catch up with me in the rankings of all the exams that followed.

In the course of our fourth form year when I started talking to girls during school functions, I happened to converse with a girlfriend of Chira on one Sunday afternoon. I particularly remember that girl because she was the first one I ever plucked up the courage to approach and engage in a conversation.

The girl turned out to be a delightful conversationalist. I recollect telling her about the great American president Franklin Delano Roosevelt. She, in turn, told me more about Wilson Chira and how they met in a hospital. I could tell from the way she was talking enthusiastically about Chira that she was nuts about him.

When our high school years came to an end in November 2005, I chose to return to Starehe to pursue a diploma in information technology in the institute division of the school while Chira was selected to do a gap year internship at a school in Australia. That year in 2006 when I was in Starehe Institute and Chira was in Australia, we both applied for admission to colleges in the United States. I applied to MIT, Cornell, Stanford and Dartmouth while Chira applied to Howard, Wake Forest and the University of Pennsylvania (UPenn).

Back then in 2006, I thought I stood a better chance than Chira of getting accepted into the American colleges due to the free access I had to Starehe teachers who wrote the recommendation letters required by the colleges. Imagine while I could walk into a teachers' staffroom at any time of the day, Chira had to send someone to Starehe to organize on how he could get recommendation letters and a high school transcript. How unfortunate he was! Or so I thought.

Come March and April 2007, I was rejected by all the four American colleges where I had dropped my applications; first by MIT, then by Cornell and Dartmouth, and finally by Stanford. It really was depressing to be rejected. And I thought the same fate had also befallen on Chira, but I didn't get to know if that was the case until one April morning several days later.

That morning, I was walking on a highway in Starehe when I spotted Chira approaching in the opposite direction. At some deep level of my psyche, I must have expected him to share with me the agony of getting rejected by the colleges he had applied for admission. But alas! When we met and began conversing, he apprised me that he had been admitted to UPenn, an Ivy League institution! And here had been me thinking that I stood a better chance than him of getting accepted into the American colleges - how surprising!

If I am being honest with myself, I have to admit feeling an inkling of jealousy at Chira's success but I tried to sound enthusiastic about his admission to UPenn. I wished him the best of luck in his application for a U.S. student visa, and then later on, I suggested to him that he organizes a farewell party before departing for UPenn, a suggestion that I don't think he took seriously since he was used to travelling overseas.

That morning in April 2007 was the last time I have ever seen Chira face to face. But we have kept in touch over the years via email, Facebook and WhatsApp. When I took up writing as a hobby in 2010, Chira was among the first friends who complimented me for my efforts. And in April 2011 when I asked him if he could help me purchase a domain name (thuitamaina.com) for my blog, he readily agreed and bought it for me. I was impressed by the speed with which he procured the domain name.

At one time in 2012 or 2013, I inquired from Chira via email about what became of his relationship with the girl I talked with in high school, the girl who was nuts about him. To my surprise, Chira told me quite frankly that he had no memory of that girl, which I interpret to mean he had no affection for her. Poor girl!

As the years rolled by, I continued sharing my writings with Chira and other high school classmates via Messenger, the Facebook messaging app. Some of the classmates, including Chira, would leave the conversations I initiated. It was somewhat discouraging to see the classmates leave my conversations but I don't fault them because some of the stories I shared with them were silly and vulgar.

One day in 2013, I listed the names of the high school classmates who were leaving my conversations and complained about them belittling my ambitions. And lo! Most of them reacted negatively to my post; I had stirred up a real hornets' nest.

But Chira never said anything; he remained silent as others hurled condemnatory comments at me. I thought to myself it was very wise of him to keep quiet. Chira is indeed a beautiful soul, and I am honored to have him in my circle of friends.

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Bible Quote

"Always be full of joy in the Lord; I say it again, rejoice! Let everyone see that you are unselfish and considerate in all you do... Don't worry about anything; instead pray about everything; tell God your needs and don't forget to thank Him for His answers. If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand."

~Phillipians 4:4-7 (TLB)

About the Author

Name: Thuita J. Maina
Nationality: Kenyan
Lives in: Kiserian, Rift Valley, Kenya
Mission: To inspire the world to godly living, one person at a time.

Just For Laughs

There was this drunkard named Azoge who loved drinking at Josiah's Bar. On being told a certain Hon. Nanga was flying to America to be conferred a law degree so that he could be admitted to the bar, Azoge replied, "Why fly all the way to America to be admitted to the bar while you can get into Josiah's Bar any time?"



The 7 Deadly Sins

  1. Pride
  2. Envy
  3. Gluttony
  4. Lust
  5. Anger
  6. Greed
  7. Sloth

Author's Note

I am learning to treat life as a journey, not a destination. So I am trying to enjoy each day as I anticipate to fulfill my dreams especially meeting my soulmate and traveling abroad. Tomorrow may never be mine.

Fun Facts

  1. The fear of having no cell-phone service, running out of battery, or losing sight of your phone is called Nomophobia, reportedly affecting 66% of people.
  2. A single Google search needs more computing power than it took to send Apollo 11 to the moon. The Apollo computer was less equipped than a modern toaster.
  3. Besides being some of the biggest names in the tech industry, HP, Apple, Google and Microsoft share another commonality. They all started in garages.
~Extracted from Codingforums.com

Health Tip

So many of us take for granted the wonderful construction of the human body and the workings of its various parts. Some of us even expect it to function efficiently with less than the minimum care and attention. Learn the much you can about your body and how the care of it can help to give you that greatest blessing of all - good health.


Wonders of the Modern World

  1. The Simplon Tunnel
  2. The Sky-scrapers of New York
  3. The Boulder Dam of Colorado
  4. The Panama Canal
  5. The Golden Gate Bridge
  6. The Taj Mahal at Agra in India
  7. The North Sea Oil Drilling Rigs

Great Example for Politicians

"My life in politics was a joy. I loved campaigns and I loved governing. I always tried to keep things moving in the right direction, to give more people a chance to live their dreams, to lift people's spirits, and to bring them together. That's the way I kept score."

~Bill Clinton

Scientific Marvels

  1. Space travel
  2. Heart surgery
  3. Fibre-optics communication
  4. Concorde
  5. Computers & Radios
  6. Anesthetics
  7. The atom bomb

My Supreme Desire

Although I'd like to be rich and famous, my supreme desire is to be radiant: to radiate health, cheerfulness, calm courage and goodwill. I wish to live without hate, guilt, worry, jealousy, cynicism and envy. I wish to be honest, natural, confident, clean in mind and body - ready to say "I do not know" if it be so and to treat all men with kindness - to meet any loss, failure, criticism and rejection unabashed and unafraid.



Greatest American Presidents

  1. Abraham Lincoln
  2. George Washington
  3. Thomas Jefferson
  4. Franklin Roosevelt
  5. Theodore Roosevelt
  6. Woodrow Wilson
  7. Andrew Jackson

Making Peace With the Past

"Dwell not on your past. Use it to illustrate a point, then leave it behind. Nothing really matters except what you do now in this instant of time. From this moment onwards you can be an entirely different person, filled with love and understanding, ready with an outstretched hand, uplifted and positive in every thought and deed."

~Eileen Caddy

Toughest Colleges to Get Into

  1. MIT
  2. Princeton
  3. Harvard
  4. Yale
  5. Stanford
  6. Brown
  7. Columbia

Why You Should Trust God

"Men and women who turn their lives over to God will find out that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can. He will deepen their joys, expand their vision, quicken their minds, strengthen their muscles, lift their spirits, multiply their blessings, increase their opportunities and pour out peace."

~Ezra Taft Benson

The 7 Greatest Scientists

  1. Albert Einstein
  2. Isaac Newton
  3. Galileo Galilei
  4. Nikola Tesla
  5. Aristotle
  6. Archimedes
  7. Charles Darwin

You Matter

"Always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past; it's a waste of time. There's a reason for everything. Every mistake, every moment of weakness, every terrible thing that has happened to you, grow from it. The only way you can ever get the respect of others is when you show them that you respect yourself and most importantly, do your thing and never apologize for being you."

~Unknown

The Most Industrialized Nations

  1. United States
  2. Japan
  3. Germany
  4. France
  5. United Kingdom
  6. Italy
  7. Canada

Keys to Success

"...in his effort to withstand temptation, to economize, to exercise thrift, to disregard the superficial for the real - the shadow for the substance; to be great yet small, in his effort to be patient in the laying of a firm foundation; to so grow in skill and knowledge that he shall place his services in demand by reason of his intrinsic and superior worth. This is the key that unlocks every door of opportunity, and all others fail."

~Booker T. Washington

The 7 Social Sins

  1. Politics without principle
  2. Wealth without work
  3. Pleasure without conscience
  4. Knowledge without character
  5. Commerce without morality
  6. Worship without sacrifice
  7. Science without humanity

Cherish What You Love

"Cherish your visions, cherish your ideals, cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts - for out of them will grow all heavenly environment, of these if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built."~James Allen

The World's Largest Cities

  1. London in England
  2. New York in the United States
  3. Tokyo in Japan
  4. Berlin in Germany
  5. Chicago in the United States
  6. Shanghai in China
  7. Paris in France

Benefits of Optimism

"In terms of success, optimistic people out perform their pessimistic colleagues. Research shows that they are consistently promoted higher and make more money while working fewer hours than those who think pessimistically. Optimists also contribute more significantly to social progress. It is the optimists who start and run successful companies, who win elections and carry out reforms, and who make breakthroughs in the realms of science and technology."

~Pepe Minambo

The World's Greatest Lakes

  1. Caspian Sea in the Commonwealth of Independent States, C.I.S. (formerly U.S.S.R)
  2. Lake Superior in North America
  3. Victoria Nyanza in Central Africa
  4. Aral Sea in C.I.S.
  5. Lake Huron in North America
  6. Lake Michigan in North America

Demonstrating His Love

"Take your communication for instance - the way you address others. It ought to be with loving, gracious and edifying words. Never talk people down. Never use words that hurt and demean people. Communicate excellently with others without destroying their self-image or making them feel sorry for themselves. Talk to people in a way that they never forget the excellence of your words, the love and grace of Christ that you communicated. It's how God wants us to love."

~Dr. Chris Oyakhilome

World's Longest Rivers

  1. Missouri-Mississipi (U.S.)
  2. Amazon (Brazil)
  3. Nile (Egypt)
  4. Yangtse (China)
  5. Lena (Russia)
  6. Zaire (Central Africa)
  7. Niger (West Africa)